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What you get with a paid subscription is the monthly Dear Sugar Letter, access to the full Dear Sugar archives, occasional bonus content, all free newsletters (which I publish six or so times a year), the ability to comment on all posts, and my eternal gratitude.

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Please email it to me at: deardearsugar@gmail.com (yes, that is two dears!).

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On the last day of each month, though on occasion I miss my deadline by a hair and it comes out a day or two after that (oops!).

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